請尊重演藝人士, 我以身為演藝人士為傲!!❤️
What I don’t understand is why and how it has been skewed this far from the truth… This whole “thing”, (because I don’t know what else to call it), cannot be considered “work” because we were not issued work permits. In order to fill the requirements of applying for work permits, a company or organization must have the proper license to do so. In addition, I never signed any release forms allowing any of my audio or visuals to be used. Why does this judge keep push me to break the law?
It seems as though this judge doesn’t realize the severity of the case at hand, and has her own agenda and personal preferences that are not associated to the law. I am very shocked to witness it firsthand, and am very disappointed in Taiwan’s judicial system. I don’t know if it is because I am a U.S. Citizen, or if it is my line of work, but it just does not seem reasonable. I believe in and support what Vicky and POLO have said and done, and trust that we all can make an impact, regardless of how others view it. The main thing is to set the standard that should have already been there.
Although I have previously used Lee and Li Attorneys, I am very thankful to have Foresight Law’s Mark Wang and especially Vivian Huang as my lawyers and most importantly, friends. I trust them both, and value their professionalism, morals and character. I am very proud and admire how they conducted themselves during the April 25th, 2018 court date. Even though they were unreasonably belittled and berated by the Judge, they still continued with much class and respect.
I can understand people categorizing or stereotyping me and my line of work when they don’t know me; but I feel that people should keep an open mind, especially when they get a chance understand where I come from and what my beliefs are. There is no right or wrong with your view of me or my line of work; however I wish to be respected for my decisions and my process! It may not be for everyone, the way my team and I do things, but it is the only way we believe in.
Thank you again for all your support! We will never give up, as we have the responsibility to protect ourselves and the people around us, along with standing up for what is right!
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dates a girl who travels. 和一個旅行女孩約會吧。(請自行尋找相中亮點 XD) 【一舊雲 旅行者雜貨店】
Date a girl who travels. 和一個旅行女孩約會吧!
Date a girl who travels.
Date a girl who would rather save up for out of town trips or day trips than buy new shoes or clothes. She may not look like a fashion plate, but behind that tanned and freckled face from all the days out in the sun, lies a mind that can take you places and an open heart that will take you for what you are, not for what you can be.
和一個旅行女孩約會吧。這個女孩,寧願把錢存下來當作旅行基金,也不會花在無謂的新衣服。她看起來可能不是個時尚辣妹,但在那張久經日曬的小麥色臉龐後,藏著一顆能帶你去任何地方,並且能欣賞你最真實個性的一顆心。
Date a girl who travels.
You’ll recognize her by the backpack she always carries. She won’t be carrying a dainty handbag; where will she put her travel journal, her pens, and the LED flashlight that’s always attached to her bag’s zipper? In a small purse, how can she bring the small coil of travel string, the wet tissues, the box of cracker, and the bottle of water she’s always ready with, just in case something happens and she can’t go home yet? Yes, a girl who travels knows that anytime, anything can happen and she just has to be prepared with it. Nothing takes her by surprise; she takes everything with equanimity, knowing that such things are always a part of life. She’s reliable and dependable, traits that she’s learned while on the road.
和一個旅行女孩約會吧。你可以一眼就從那永不離身的背包認出她。並非一個無法裝載旅行日誌、筆、手電筒的精緻小提包,一個小包包怎麼能裝下旅行繩、溼毛巾、乾糧、和一瓶緊急備用的水呢?沒錯,一個旅行女孩知道隨時都有可能發生無法預料的事,所以她會永遠保持在準備好的狀態。沒有什麼事能嚇到她,她永遠可以泰然處之從容面對,知道這就是人生。她是值得信賴依靠的,這是她從旅途中學到的事。
You’ll also recognize a girl who travels by the fact that she’s always amazed at the world around her, no matter if she’s in her home town or in a place that’s totally new. She sees beauty all around her, not just the ones featured in travel guides or shown in postcards. A girl who travels has developed a deeper appreciation for life. She won’t judge you, or pressure you to do things you don’t want to do. She knows too much about the importance of identity and self-efficacy, and she will appreciate all the more if you won’t pretend to be who you’re not.
你也可以從旅行女孩那不管是在家鄉或是一個陌生城鎮,卻總能對她周遭事物充滿興趣的特質認出她。她可以發覺各式美麗事物,而不只是旅行指南或明信片上的熱門景點。一個旅行女孩會對生命由衷的欣賞,她不會武斷地評論你,也不會逼你做不情願的事。她清楚的知道自我肯定及認同的重要,如果你不矯揉造作,她對你加倍青睞。你可以對一個旅行女孩說謊,犯錯也沒有關係,你可以做最真實的自己。別擔心,她在旅途中碰過更糟的事,而且對變化莫測的人性也有深刻的認識。
Date a girl who travels, because when you’re with her, you’ll realize that even though she’s napped at a temple in Angkor Wat, went boating down the Mekong Delta, ran by the streets of Saigon, or went skinny-dipping in the caves in the Philippines , she still retains that humility that is the mark of a real traveler. She knows she’s been to a lot of places, but she’s humbled by the fact that the world is still a big place and she’s only seen a small part of it. Seeing this in her can make you feel all right with yourself too; there’s no need for you to do more, to be more. What you are is enough.
和一個旅行女孩約會吧。和她在一起你會發現,無論她在吳哥窟小憩,在湄公河划船,在西貢的街上奔跑,或是在菲律賓的洞穴裸泳,她都謹記著「謙遜」才是旅人最重要的特質。她知道她去過很多地方,但她很謙虛地了解這世界很大,自己走過的地方只是一小部份。這項特質讓你也覺得很自在,你不需要虛假誇大,只需要做你自己。
When you meet a girl who travels, ask her where she’s been and what she’s going to do next. She will appreciate your interest, and if you’re lucky, she may even invite you to join her. When she does, do. Nothing bonds people better than traveling. On your trips, you will both see each other’s best and worst characteristics, and you can then decide whether she’s worth fighting for.
當你認識一個旅行女孩,問問她去過哪裡、下一個旅行地點是哪裡,她會很欣賞你的用心。夠幸運的話,說不定她還會約你結伴同行。如果她開口,就跟她一起去吧。沒有一件事能比旅行更能拉近人與人之間的關係,在旅程中,你們會發現彼此的優點和缺點,你也可以因此決定她是不是個值得的對象。
It’s easy enough to date a girl who travels. She won’t want expensive gifts; you can buy her (or both of you) cheap tickets to Thailand for the weekend, and she’ll be more than happy to take you to the longest wooden bridge in the country. You don’t even have to go overseas; you can take her out on day trips, caving or hiking, or treat her to a full body massage.
You can also buy her the little things that she keeps forgetting to buy for herself; that carabiner that will attach her backpack to her seat so that she will feel easier about sleeping on her bus trip, or a backpack cover, a small alarm clock, a money belt, or maybe another sarong that will replace the one she lost in China.
和一個旅行女孩約會很簡單。她不渴求昂貴的禮物,你可以買張飛往泰國渡週末的廉價機票給她或是來一趟雙人之旅,她會帶你去看世界上最長的木橋;你們甚至不用出國,你可以帶她去個洞穴探險或爬山的一日小旅行,或是讓她享受一套全身按摩。你也可以送她一些她總是忘記買的小東西。那條能綁住她的背包和座椅的鍊條,讓她能在巴士旅途中睡個好覺;一個背包套、小鬧鐘、可以藏錢的腰帶、或是一條新沙龍來代替她在中國遺失那條。
She won’t mind if you get lost on your way to a date. She knows that oftentimes, the journey is more important than the destination. She will help you see the lighter side of things. She’ll walk along with you, not behind you, pointing out the interesting bits of things you’ll see on the way. Before long, you’ll realize that yes, the journey has been more memorable than the destination that you’ve planned to take her to.
一個旅行女孩不介意你約會時迷路,她知道多數時候旅行的過程比結果更重要。她會讓看到事情的光明面,走在你身旁而不是你後方,為你指出一路上將看到的趣事。不用多久你就會真的了解,和她一起尋找的過程其實比你要帶她去的目的地更讓你記憶深刻。
Is a girl who travels worth it? Yes, she is. So when you find her, keep her. Don’t lose her with your insecurities and doubts. Because when she says she loves you, she really does. After all, she’s seen so many things, met so many people, and if she had chosen you, better grab that opportunity and thank the gods that you were lucky enough she’s chosen you and not that bloke she met while watching the sun rise in Angkor Wat, or while whitewater rafting in the Padas Gorge in Sabah. If she says she loves you, she must have seen something in you, something that can always call her back from her travels, something that can anchor her to the world in the way that she wants to after weeks and months of being on the road.
一個旅行女孩值得你追求嗎?是的,她值得。所以當你碰上她時,請好好珍惜她。不要因為你的不安全感或懷疑而放手,因為當她說她愛你,那絕對千真萬確。畢竟她看過那麼多各式事物,認識了那麼多不同的人;如果她選擇了你,請好好把握這個機會,並感謝老天她選擇的是你,而不是那個她在吳哥窟並肩看夕陽的男孩,或她在沙巴巴達士泛舟的同伴。如果她說她愛你,表示她一定有發現你的某些特別之處;一些能讓她回憶起過去旅行的小細節,一個能讓她在四處漂蕩好幾個月後可以停泊的港灣。
Date a girl who travels. Make her feel safe, warm, and secure. Make her believe that no matter where she goes, and however long she’s gone, you’ll always be there for her, the one that she can call home.
和一個旅行女孩約會吧。給她安心和溫暖,讓她相信無論她去到哪裡,或是離開了多久,你都會在那個她能當作「家」的地方等待她。
Find a girl who travels. Date her, love her, and marry her, and your world will never be the same again.
找一個旅行女孩,和她約會,真愛她,讓她成為你的妻子。你的世界,將會因此而不同。
《《中文版譯自 Reddy Ting Ho。原文載自 Date A Girl Who Travels.》》
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和一個旅行女孩約會吧!
Date a girl who travels. 和一個旅行女孩約會吧!
Date a girl who travels.
Date a girl who would rather save up for out of town trips or day trips than buy new shoes or clothes. She may not look like a fashion plate, but behind that tanned and freckled face from all the days out in the sun, lies a mind that can take you places and an open heart that will take you for what you are, not for what you can be.
和一個旅行女孩約會吧。這個女孩,寧願把錢存下來當作旅行基金,也不會花在無謂的新衣服。她看起來可能不是個時尚辣妹,但在那張久經日曬的小麥色臉龐後,藏著一顆能帶你去任何地方,並且能欣賞你最真實個性的一顆心。
Date a girl who travels.
You’ll recognize her by the backpack she always carries. She won’t be carrying a dainty handbag; where will she put her travel journal, her pens, and the LED flashlight that’s always attached to her bag’s zipper? In a small purse, how can she bring the small coil of travel string, the wet tissues, the box of cracker, and the bottle of water she’s always ready with, just in case something happens and she can’t go home yet? Yes, a girl who travels knows that anytime, anything can happen and she just has to be prepared with it. Nothing takes her by surprise; she takes everything with equanimity, knowing that such things are always a part of life. She’s reliable and dependable, traits that she’s learned while on the road.
和一個旅行女孩約會吧。你可以一眼就從那永不離身的背包認出她。並非一個無法裝載旅行日誌、筆、手電筒的精緻小提包,一個小包包怎麼能裝下旅行繩、溼毛巾、乾糧、和一瓶緊急備用的水呢?沒錯,一個旅行女孩知道隨時都有可能發生無法預料的事,所以她會永遠保持在準備好的狀態。沒有什麼事能嚇到她,她永遠可以泰然處之從容面對,知道這就是人生。她是值得信賴依靠的,這是她從旅途中學到的事。
You’ll also recognize a girl who travels by the fact that she’s always amazed at the world around her, no matter if she’s in her home town or in a place that’s totally new. She sees beauty all around her, not just the ones featured in travel guides or shown in postcards. A girl who travels has developed a deeper appreciation for life. She won’t judge you, or pressure you to do things you don’t want to do. She knows too much about the importance of identity and self-efficacy, and she will appreciate all the more if you won’t pretend to be who you’re not.
你也可以從旅行女孩那不管是在家鄉或是一個陌生城鎮,卻總能對她周遭事物充滿興趣的特質認出她。她可以發覺各式美麗事物,而不只是旅行指南或明信片上的熱門景點。一個旅行女孩會對生命由衷的欣賞,她不會武斷地評論你,也不會逼你做不情願的事。她清楚的知道自我肯定及認同的重要,如果你不矯揉造作,她對你加倍青睞。你可以對一個旅行女孩說謊,犯錯也沒有關係,你可以做最真實的自己。別擔心,她在旅途中碰過更糟的事,而且對變化莫測的人性也有深刻的認識。
Date a girl who travels, because when you’re with her, you’ll realize that even though she’s napped at a temple in Angkor Wat, went boating down the Mekong Delta, ran by the streets of Saigon, or went skinny-dipping in the caves in the Philippines , she still retains that humility that is the mark of a real traveler. She knows she’s been to a lot of places, but she’s humbled by the fact that the world is still a big place and she’s only seen a small part of it. Seeing this in her can make you feel all right with yourself too; there’s no need for you to do more, to be more. What you are is enough.
和一個旅行女孩約會吧。和她在一起你會發現,無論她在吳哥窟小憩,在湄公河划船,在西貢的街上奔跑,或是在菲律賓的洞穴裸泳,她都謹記著「謙遜」才是旅人最重要的特質。她知道她去過很多地方,但她很謙虛地了解這世界很大,自己走過的地方只是一小部份。這項特質讓你也覺得很自在,你不需要虛假誇大,只需要做你自己。
When you meet a girl who travels, ask her where she’s been and what she’s going to do next. She will appreciate your interest, and if you’re lucky, she may even invite you to join her. When she does, do. Nothing bonds people better than traveling. On your trips, you will both see each other’s best and worst characteristics, and you can then decide whether she’s worth fighting for.
當你認識一個旅行女孩,問問她去過哪裡、下一個旅行地點是哪裡,她會很欣賞你的用心。夠幸運的話,說不定她還會約你結伴同行。如果她開口,就跟她一起去吧。沒有一件事能比旅行更能拉近人與人之間的關係,在旅程中,你們會發現彼此的優點和缺點,你也可以因此決定她是不是個值得的對象。
It’s easy enough to date a girl who travels. She won’t want expensive gifts; you can buy her (or both of you) cheap tickets to Thailand for the weekend, and she’ll be more than happy to take you to the longest wooden bridge in the country. You don’t even have to go overseas; you can take her out on day trips, caving or hiking, or treat her to a full body massage.
You can also buy her the little things that she keeps forgetting to buy for herself; that carabiner that will attach her backpack to her seat so that she will feel easier about sleeping on her bus trip, or a backpack cover, a small alarm clock, a money belt, or maybe another sarong that will replace the one she lost in China.
和一個旅行女孩約會很簡單。她不渴求昂貴的禮物,你可以買張飛往泰國渡週末的廉價機票給她或是來一趟雙人之旅,她會帶你去看世界上最長的木橋;你們甚至不用出國,你可以帶她去個洞穴探險或爬山的一日小旅行,或是讓她享受一套全身按摩。你也可以送她一些她總是忘記買的小東西。那條能綁住她的背包和座椅的鍊條,讓她能在巴士旅途中睡個好覺;一個背包套、小鬧鐘、可以藏錢的腰帶、或是一條新沙龍來代替她在中國遺失那條。
She won’t mind if you get lost on your way to a date. She knows that oftentimes, the journey is more important than the destination. She will help you see the lighter side of things. She’ll walk along with you, not behind you, pointing out the interesting bits of things you’ll see on the way. Before long, you’ll realize that yes, the journey has been more memorable than the destination that you’ve planned to take her to.
一個旅行女孩不介意你約會時迷路,她知道多數時候旅行的過程比結果更重要。她會讓看到事情的光明面,走在你身旁而不是你後方,為你指出一路上將看到的趣事。不用多久你就會真的了解,和她一起尋找的過程其實比你要帶她去的目的地更讓你記憶深刻。
Is a girl who travels worth it? Yes, she is. So when you find her, keep her. Don’t lose her with your insecurities and doubts. Because when she says she loves you, she really does. After all, she’s seen so many things, met so many people, and if she had chosen you, better grab that opportunity and thank the gods that you were lucky enough she’s chosen you and not that bloke she met while watching the sun rise in Angkor Wat, or while whitewater rafting in the Padas Gorge in Sabah. If she says she loves you, she must have seen something in you, something that can always call her back from her travels, something that can anchor her to the world in the way that she wants to after weeks and months of being on the road.
一個旅行女孩值得你追求嗎?是的,她值得。所以當你碰上她時,請好好珍惜她。不要因為你的不安全感或懷疑而放手,因為當她說她愛你,那絕對千真萬確。畢竟她看過那麼多各式事物,認識了那麼多不同的人;如果她選擇了你,請好好把握這個機會,並感謝老天她選擇的是你,而不是那個她在吳哥窟並肩看夕陽的男孩,或她在沙巴巴達士泛舟的同伴。如果她說她愛你,表示她一定有發現你的某些特別之處;一些能讓她回憶起過去旅行的小細節,一個能讓她在四處漂蕩好幾個月後可以停泊的港灣。
Date a girl who travels. Make her feel safe, warm, and secure. Make her believe that no matter where she goes, and however long she’s gone, you’ll always be there for her, the one that she can call home.
和一個旅行女孩約會吧。給她安心和溫暖,讓她相信無論她去到哪裡,或是離開了多久,你都會在那個她能當作「家」的地方等待她。
Find a girl who travels. Date her, love her, and marry her, and your world will never be the same again.
找一個旅行女孩,和她約會,真愛她,讓她成為你的妻子。你的世界,將會因此而不同。
《《中文版譯自 Reddy Ting Ho。原文載自 Date A Girl Who Travels.》》
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※ 本人麻瓜,純屬路過。
※ 手機排版,文長慎入。
(分類一直不見,不會補,只好一直刪,還請海涵。)
9/10回推噓:
各位每一條推噓文我都看了。無論是喜歡風格、誇獎文筆、路過幫補血、鼓勵我寫下去的
,或是噓廢話多、太蠢、飄比例不足的,我都虛心候教。很高興有個地方能讓我分享這些
事,飄版真是個有溫度的好地方。
大家身邊有認識那種對事物警戒心低到不可思議,非常適合擔綱媽佛主角或人怖主角的人
嗎?
一個寬廣的open mind,就是這些人自帶的主角光環吧。
我是麻瓜,但家姊就是上述這種人。
家姊很正,更難得的是,兼具一顆善良美好的心。從小我就覺得她真的是童話主角般的人
,只差唱歌小鳥不會來、老鼠不會幫她做家事。她對人總持著無罪推定、人性本善的思維
,一早起來就面帶微笑,覺得世界真美好、空氣真清新,燦爛的閃瞎了我的眼。
只想看有飄的,可以快轉至(三)。
(ㄧ)詐騙
有天,家母跟我說,「你姊啊,差點被詐騙,我跟她講她還不信。」家母是一個每逢網路
謠言必轉發、假新聞必認同也分享的人,話從這樣的她口中說出,我就不能不處理了。
家姊說,前幾天接到一通電話,說她抽獎抽中了雙人的國外旅遊。她當然既興奮又開心,
對方接著說,要保留這個名額,她得先去繳一筆保證金,上萬,但比起雙人國外旅遊小錢
,而且辦妥手續後,就會把保證金退還給她。
聽到這,我白眼已經翻到後腦勺了。
家姊惋惜的說,但存摺的印章在家母那,家母說她被騙了,不肯交出印章。後來對方又來
電,家姊告知對方,她要去借錢籌這筆保證金,請對方先保留名額。對方後來或許是良心
發現吧,說搞錯了,沒有她的名額,堅持要她不要去借錢......家姊還要對方再三確認真
的沒有自己的名額嗎?她真的很想去......
我想著如何說才能讓她明白,詐騙都良心發現了,妳還比他堅持是怎樣?我問「那妳最近
真的有參加什麼抽獎嗎?」
烏鴉就飛過去,話題就結束了。
家姊就是一個這麼天真善良到詐騙都忍不下心騙她的人。
(二)色魔
我一直以為,那種會隨機埋伏夜歸女性性侵的色魔,是電影、或社會新聞中才會出現的,
但家姊的遭遇改變了我的想法。(另一個朋友也遭遇過,所以真的只是有沒有遇上而已。
)
有天晚上,我正在洗澡,從氣窗外傳來家姊的尖叫聲。我叫爸媽帶著狗下樓去看看,在樓
梯間遇到已平安上樓的家姊。
剛剛,家姊走回家的路上,有個頭戴全罩式安全帽的男子走在她身後,到了我家巷子,男
子突然從後面熊抱她,她嚇了一跳尖叫,男子似是想將她撲倒,但拖不動她......
家姊人正又紙片,但不巧...力、大、無、窮,她可以自己一個人搬一個雙門、附全身鏡
的衣櫃......上、三、樓。
她移動了幾步,男子仍沒放手,直到男子想摀住她的嘴,家姊才出力反抗(所以剛剛還沒
用力就可以輕鬆拖著一個成年男子走......),安全帽男秒被摔在地上,他傻愣了幾秒,
說了句「我認錯人了」,倉惶逃離。
家姊又一次逢凶化吉,而且真的以為對方是認錯人......直到我們跟她說那是色魔吧,她
才嚇哭。
(三)剛剛那個
一個午後,我在房裡睡的口水直流,家姊突然搖醒我,用前所未有的肅殺眼神看著我,問
我:
「剛剛那個是你用的嗎?」
平時溫和的人生氣,反差總會讓人心驚。我被問得一頭霧水,趕緊否認,說不是我、我一
直在睡覺。家姊離開房間,孬孬的我也沒有追問。
過陣子,我才從家母那得知,家姊覺得自己「遇到了」要家母帶她去收驚。
那個午後,家姊在客廳沙發上睡著了,睡到一半,突然醒來,但全身動彈不得,她感覺到
身邊一大群人在客廳走動,嘰嘰咕咕的說著她完全聽不懂的話,有男有女、有老有少。
在一片詭異的熙熙攘攘中,家姊只能人為刀俎我為魚肉,想反抗、卻無法解開束縛地待著
。
過了會,講話聲、走動聲突然瞬間全都消失,她又能動了,有了跟我的對話。
比起從小住到大,從沒怪事的自家客廳發生了靈異事件,我更驚奇的是,家姊為啥第一時
間認定那一片動靜是我搞得出來的咧?請一大群臨演來家裡神出鬼沒,外帶讓她動不了..
.
...我何德何能啊?
家姊相信過詐騙、色魔,但懷疑我......我才是老實過日子的人好不好!
差點忘了交代,因為家母篤信佛教,所以後來只給家姊一串佛珠要她多念佛就了了這事。
後來我家也沒事。
(四)奶奶
時光荏苒,前年,我奶奶過世了,結束了波折的一生,家姊又遇到了,遇到奶奶。
唉,以下的內容,有些沈重,慎入。
奶奶生前,不是一個好相處的長輩。跟那些和藹可親的老人家相反,我們極少相處的時光
中,她總是一個令我跟家姊感到壓迫恐懼的存在。
奶奶長住南部,與我們一年只見一兩次。例外是她偶爾會突然殺來我們家,不打聲招呼就
住下。
奶奶無論在我家或南部自宅,都時常待在房內,一盞燈都不開、坐在床尾、或站在窗邊自
言自語,用令小孩畏懼的話詛咒著我們不知道的人,呼喚著她早夭孩子的名字,說著與現
實相左的幻想。
奶奶對父親有異常的執著,嫉妒著時常搭父親便車出入的我。東西掉了都覺得是我偷的,
儘管每次都在她身上找出,或根本忘在南部家裡,但下一次矛頭依然指向我。有次覺得我
的眼鏡是偷她的,憤恨我偷東西還毫不掩飾,敢在她面前戴著招搖,一把將眼鏡從我臉上
抓下,在眼睛旁劃下幾道抓痕。眼鏡度數不同,根本無法共用,父親戳破奶奶,將她連夜
送回南部。
奶奶很少跟家姊起衝突,但家姊對她的恐懼卻比我還深很多。
我們懂事後,了解了奶奶是受精神分裂症(也稱思覺失調症)折磨,早年喪父、婚後婆婆
妯娌的欺侮......不幸導致發病。
我的不滿逐漸淡化為同情,奶奶北上暫住的時候,也會講講話逗她開心,輪班照料她,從
她靦腆的笑中,我看見了一個如果,如果沒有病魔,她會是美好的。
但家姊仍無法克制內心的恐懼,她曾說,她甚至連知道奶奶跟她在同層樓(遇到色魔後不
久,我們從公寓搬到了獨棟透天的社區),都會下意識的屏住呼吸,希望奶奶不要發現她
的存在。這無關良善與否,那是種超越道德的生理恐懼。
針對奶奶病症的用藥,會有引發腦溢血的可能。藥量過輕,奶奶的病症就無法壓下,藥量
過重,奶奶就可能中風。經過兩次輕微腦溢血後,醫生才解釋了這個關係。在醫生還無法
拿捏用藥如何是重、如何是輕,家屬們也還不知該如何取捨時,腦溢血就帶走了奶奶。
命運捉弄了奶奶幾近一生,但至少在最後給了她一個仁慈的痛快。
而人世間就是這般弔詭,應該是家族中最怕與奶奶有交集的家姊,成了整個家族中唯一一
個,在奶奶身故後見過她的人。
奶奶去世的當天,我無法馬上南下,等隔一天到,父親便帶著壞笑說「呵呵呵你姊昨天說
看到阿嬤了喔~」
這次我有問了。
家姊說,昨晚她跟爸媽很晚才到叔叔家(奶奶與叔叔同住),因為親人都趕來,房間滿了
,她就被安排睡在奶奶房間。
家姊是一個網路小編,表面上是蘇活族自由自在,跳脫了有形的打卡,其實是被無形的交
稿壓力與點閱率牽制,即便是奔喪,還是得工作。
當晚,她在床上敲著筆電,突然聽見我奶奶的自言自語在房中傳來,呢喃著她聽不懂的叨
叨絮絮。
家姊怕鬼,小時候光我看玫瑰之夜,她不小心聽到,都搞得我得搬個板凳坐在浴室外陪她
洗澡。
鬼她怕,但更怕交不出稿,拿不到薪水;奶奶她也怕,但更怕點閱率不足,拿不到獎金。
所以她打算硬著頭皮,想說她不佔床就沒事了吧,改坐在梳妝台打筆電。沒想到這下更不
妙了,從半掩的鏡子中,她看見了奶奶坐在床尾的背影。
這下真的不行了,她筆電也不要了,匆匆去跟爸媽擠一間睡。
隔天,不知道是法師誦經奏效,還是家母念佛有用,或是生死的隔閡本就只有一晚的寬限
,奶奶沒有再出現。
等我大白天趕到時,包括家父,所有人都用訕笑的語氣談及家姊的撞鬼經驗,不高興不被
當一回事的家姊怒氣沖沖的講述著她的遭遇,一邊敲著筆電,希望可以追回損失的寫稿時
間。
忘了是誰問了「那阿嬤說什麼?」
「我聽不懂啊,我以前就聽不懂,現在怎麼會聽得懂。」
這是一個所託非人的故事?
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※ 編輯: baconbacon (114.36.236.18), 09/08/2018 23:39:42
很常被欠債不還,仍一直借對方算嗎
※ 編輯: baconbacon (114.36.236.18), 09/08/2018 23:56:14
對此我無意爭論
但我認為用喜憨兒形容無知有欠妥當
但遺憾,真的不能給
我形容一下
家姊大概一週會兩天跟我說她被搭訕
(苦惱那種,不是得意)
我跟她同校的時候
每過一陣子就會有人叫我出教室
給她情書、禮物......等等
這樣夠正嗎
其實家姊曾經留學芝加哥
自己可以在國外生活的好好的
應該並非無法自理啦
但我爸媽的確對她保護過度沒錯
去韓國說北韓要打來不准去
去泰國說她會被栽贓毒品不准去
去沖繩說不准自駕
我無言
但前些日子公司說要經營FB
有的話會落到我頭上......
到時我就可以自稱小編了沒錯
嗯......但她最近說網路小編生活沒保障
打算跟朋友合夥小生意......
我爸媽又有得擔心了沒錯
當然不合理哈哈哈
我講一下我的見證:
當時我從我房門出來(2樓)
看到一個衣櫃從一樓樓梯轉角轉過來
衣櫃冉冉上升
愈來愈靠近
我才發現底下有個人
家姊用極噗摟的姿勢扛著衣櫃上樓
(以下示意圖,非本尊。
缺圖噓者勿補推,
在下自知理虧)
更讓我極思恐懼的是
她經過我身邊時只要我讓讓
完全沒要我幫把手......
游、刃、有、餘?
好啦,下面是本尊囉,衣櫃本尊XD
Ikea的,叫pax
尺寸寬100深60高201cm
家姊的只有一面是鏡門啦
應該比較輕
附帶說明
家姊不健身不舉重
無國家栽培
單純橫練一身九陽神功
啊,想到上一篇主角組長
曾說家姊骨骼精奇......
不管是惡意、善意或是有形、無形
但我境界不夠
在正文表達不出來,導致歪樓
真是遺憾
關於正
家姊帶給我最大的影響就是
我對外貌的正已麻木
看很多空有外貌、品性不正還跩的人
我頗呵
雖然正是賣點
但真的美人三日厭啦
※ 編輯: baconbacon (114.36.248.202), 09/09/2018 14:14:52
所以才這麼敢寫
連她衣櫃型號都寫
笨版她可能會看......母湯喔
補一個笨點(?)當我的誠意
家姊說起詐騙
還說扣住存摺印章的家母很傻
她本來雙人遊要帶家母去的......
答應不轉笨版我晚點再補
大大想聽力大無窮的點
還是家姊被劈腿的點?
※ 編輯: baconbacon (114.36.248.202), 09/09/2018 15:10:55
greensh大大好,
我的標題open mind,
是取have/kepp an open mind的意思,
但這樣混在中文裏有點敖口,
所以只寫open mind,
讓你誤會了,拍謝。
keep an open mind原意是指某人對某事物沒有歧視、不帶成見、保持開放的態度。
但在活用上,常用來指某人啥狗屎爛蛋都信,我覺得,挺符合想表達的故事,所以以此為
題。
我只是覺得用任何病症來形容人格特質,
即便您並無貶義,
仍有欠妥當。
我的智慧才情有限,
自知無法說之以理,
希望能對您動之以情:
我的親友裡有是唐氏症患者,
他們的特異處您形容的也沒大錯,
但我站在親族的立場,
看見「如果你叫一個喜憨兒分糖給你 他給你也不是善良 是無知」、
「喜憨兒天真單純 對善惡無知無污染 我很喜歡這樣的人」,
真的會難受、五味雜陳,
我們的玻璃心,
源自我們永遠放不下的擔憂......
感謝您理性討論,
也感謝您對喜憨兒的善意,
我都感受到了。
也希望我的感受,
您能理解。
感謝大大的推文友善提醒,
點醒了我的盲區。
我本以為回覆推文只是閒聊,
所以挑輕鬆的隨性回,
沒想到反而讓我認為不重要變成重點,
令對外貌形容喧賓奪主。
我想過,修改掉那些無關緊要的閒聊,
但這樣會導致推文不完整,
這對版面不好,
所以還是先不刪除,
但日後如果還有機會發文,
必定謹記大大的提醒。
再次感謝R大大讚嘆R大大。
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